I had a 215 in my apartment, granted i was on the first floor. I had a 75 on a third floor apartment. no problem, its all about distribution of weight.
as for the apartments being built better because they are nice, I believe that is far from true, all apartment are built pretty much the same. The only nice things are the finishing details which have nothing to do with the structural components of the buildings. I did construction on numerous homes and apartments and it didn't matter what the sale price of the house was going to be, the construction was all the same. same finger jointed studs were used in the 5000 sq ft house that were used on the 1200 sq ft house no different.
Henry Moncada
"Courage is fear that has said its prayers"