Personally I would "T" off one of the drains keeping them both going to sump and put a valve on the T so you can keep flow to the refugium a minimum. Definitely not a good idea to feed refugium from return pump.
If it is a true refugium you want the nutrient rich water from the tank going there as opposed to water that has been through the skimmer, etc.
Lee
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