What Ace said. Then buy a replacement - they aren't that expensive. Just don't hit the glass.
You want to split the nut. Don't worry about the washer part of the nut - once you get it split, it should come off.
Alternatively, you can use a GOOD cut-off wheel, and cut the nut between the hex and the flange, straight thru. Like above, stay away from the glass. I'd put a bunch of blue painter's tape around the area, a couple of layers thick, in case you "bounce" it will hit that and not the glass.
Bill
215g FOWLR... and anemones, GSP, gorgonians... carp, that isn't FO!
"I killed my first SW Fish in 1971..."