i am feeling the same. dont worry it will pass. I am also taking it much slower because i realized how much of my funds were being dumped into my tank. I have too many better things to spend my money especially in this economy. I stepped back and was wondering why i spent $60 on a fish that died and why i spent $40 on a coral. I love high end stuff but I really needed to slow down. I could have 3 other hobbies and spend less money than this one. not to put down this hobby but as we all know it is expensive! haha