Appreciate the responses everyone. I guess it is all adding up. I had a frustrating day and it used to cheer me up to do maintenance on the tanks or sit dumb founded in front of them for an hour or so. I can't do that right now since the 90g is empty and the Finnex is more frustrating to deal with than it is worth. I have plenty other hobbies - golf, fishing, family, and work (yes, I love my job that much) - it is just none are as frustrating to me right now. I will be taking a step back and reevaluating the situation. I know where I want my 90g to be and it is just going to take time to get there again.

Karin, the urchin was awesome until ate the foam. LOL! and if you read my thread in the nano section you will see my frustration with the Finnex - I feel I wasted my money on that tank. I do have another plan for it though and it will hopefully happen soon.

Thanks again for the replies and hopefully others will chime in. I know I am not the only one in this situation right now.