Thanks for all the advice:

Just an update, stayed up too late on thursday thinking of my tank and what has gone wrong with it, but in doing so I was able to look at my tank with the lights off. I dont have 4 peps I have 6 large peps that I think have been eating too many leftovers from the fish. Last night and tonight I more or less hand fed or turkey baster feed the fish. It was more of a squirt let them eat, once food was gone gave them a little more, instead of letting the food thaw then throwing in the tank.

Did not do a water change but will do it tomorrow.

I like the torch Idea but some of the rocks are way too big to pull out of the tank. Thinking of doing a scrub with a toothbrush and then use the torch to get anything that was left behind.

No change in the way the tank looks :(
One aptasia killing at a time

JT might take you up on the Kalk offer, I looked at two Walmarts and Targets looking for pickling lime but could not find any, anyone know where to get some in SA?