Karin,

I'd have to add, though, what you're talking about is something we've all done. I don't think it's technically wrong. At least you're willing to prepay for the item. I'd rather see "sold" next to the fish tag than "hold".

Plus, if I see something I really want, and it's already been reserved, I just ask the lfs owner to be on the lookout next time something similar comes in and to reserve it for me.