After about 5 months and a couple different anemones my black and whites finally hosted my new frog spawn look a like nem. My male hasnt made his way in as of yet.
Yeah I kinda tricked them. They wouldnt touch my rose btas or the green lta. I got this nem this past week and it attached right on the rock that my clowns have been hosting but as it expanded I think they started touching and it went from there. I had little hope after this long but the female hasnt really left it all day.