I had three damsels when I picked up my tank. Mean little devils. They would all three chase each other then if one was chasing another, the third would chase something else. Always chasing.

I happened to 'lose' one when I rearranged my rocks. I didn't exactly go looking for it either once it went missing.

Since then, my two damsels are pretty calm and follow each other around. Hoover in one area mostly around a big leather and protect it like its theirs. No major all out wars in the tank across the entire thing. Maybe you just need a girlfriend/boyfriend ? EDIT -- YOUR FISH NEEDS A GF OR BF

Jill