what you could do is make a U shape out of PVC long enough to reach the bottom of the container, drop one side into the container, mount a spigot on the other. oh, fill it with water by opening the spigot, fill, then close to hold the water in while you drop the other end in the barrel. this will give you a siphon with a spigot attached, as long as you don't drain it down all the way, you should only have to set it up once, assuming your PVC joints don't leak. does all that make sense? and for a stand, just go down to your local builders supply and ask for a waterheater stand. it should handle the weight, and be cheap and easy.
abe
60G cube, now planted amazon tank