Got some pointers from Russ a few years back on something like this. Just monitor the tds output of the membrane, before it enters DI chamber. If you see that start to spike, then your membrane might be nearing the end of it's usefullness. Chlorine destroys a membrane faster than anything, so keep up with your carbon block change-out schedule.
Also, as already said, incoming water pressure makes a huge difference in lifespan and production. We had to get a pressure guage because our house pressure is too high and it damaged a couple of membranes on the ro/unit. Installed a cheapie plastic psi guage from HD (near the water heaters and well pump equipment) for $7. Added it inline right before the water enters the membrane housing. The we ordered a pressure valve from Buckeye. We use it to try and keep the pressure near 80 psi. We get about a 98% rejection rate and 5 gallons of water every 2 hrs.
You'll usually also see better production rates and tds rejections rates during the summer compared to winter months due the the incoming water temp difference.
I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member.
Groucho Marx