There are LOTS of things that can cause a tank to crash that won't be picked up by the typical tests. Poisons aren't easily detected - nor worth the very expensive tests to find out what they are. Could also be something as simple as a faulty heater - they aren't perfect, and sometimes go back to working just fine.
About the only thing you can do in these cases is mass dilution. If your fish ALL have parasites in just a few days, it's my guess they were weakened by something else, and the parasites were just another symptom.
I feel your pain - I had a similar experience many years ago that got me back to FW for many years. And I've been doing this (SW) since the late 60s...
Bill
215g FOWLR... and anemones, GSP, gorgonians... carp, that isn't FO!
"I killed my first SW Fish in 1971..."